As a divorced or separated parent in Maryland, navigating parental alienation or interference with visitation can be emotionally challenging. Parental alienation, defined as intentionally undermining the child’s relationship with the other parent, is a form of emotional abuse with profound consequences for the child and parent-child bond.
Understanding parental alienation
Parental alienation takes various forms, including speaking negatively about the other parent, limiting access, making false accusations or creating loyalty conflicts. Recognizing the signs is crucial as it can lead to a child developing a strong preference, resisting contact or displaying emotional distress.
Impact on child custody
Maryland bases child custody decisions on the best interests of the child. Parental alienation is viewed as emotional abuse, which can influence custody outcomes. A parent engaging in alienation may face consequences like losing legal or physical custody, reduced visitation rights or additional financial obligations. Conversely, a victimized parent may seek relief through increased custody, protected visitation or counseling.
Dealing with parental alienation
First, document everything. Keep evidence of alienation or interference, including messages, emails and witness statements. This includes keeping a journal. Maintain a record of interactions, detailing incidents, their impact and your response.
Second, to the extent possible, keep your positive relationship. Foster a positive relationship with your child, refraining from negative comments about the other parent.
Finally, seek professional help. Seek counseling for both you and your child to address emotional consequences. And, make sure you let your attorney know too.
Conclusion
Parental alienation is a serious issue requiring prompt action. If you are experiencing these challenges in Maryland, you do not have to accept it. The courts may very well be on your side here, and they can be used to stop the abuse.