The parenting plan in a family law case in Maryland can be one of the most complex issues. Children’s lives are disrupted by divorce, and it’s important to focus on their needs.
The law stresses this by trying to adhere to the child’s best interests in the custody and parenting time order.
Still, in the difficult time when the case is in progress and the immediate aftermath, it is easy to get sidetracked. To avoid that and make sure the child’s needs are met, the parents should consider their responsibilities that will be part of the order.
Make sure the parenting plan is clear on these issues
When a parenting plan is in place, the child will generally spend time with each parent provided it is safe. An example would be the custodial parent having the child during the week and the noncustodial parent for weekends. The plan could call for the noncustodial parent to have the child for an extended period during school vacations and other accommodations as part of the template.
Regardless of the structure, decision-making authority needs to be known. For example, if the child needs medical care, will the parent who has the child at the time need to consult with the other parent before getting it? Education, religious upbringing, extracurricular activities – all should be hashed out from the start.
No matter the relationship and how the marriage ended, the parents will need to communicate about the child. They must determine how it will be done and make sure they can put lingering animosities aside to serve the child’s needs. Of course, some parents are on good terms and have no problem discussing child-related matters. Even then, there can be conflict. Preparation is imperative.
A well-crafted parenting plan is key with a child’s future
Whether the parents can create their own parenting plan or they need one mandated by the court, it is essential to remember how to allocate responsibilities. This is fundamental to the child’s development in every way and can prevent any disagreements between the parents from escalating. The most important aspect is to think about the child’s needs and focus on how best to serve them.